Soon to be Divorced

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am soon to be divorced. have mixed feelings. You see we never really fought/argued. He has seasonal depression and refuses to get help, in the meantime every year when the weather changes he completely isolates himself from all friends and family. Unfortunately this usually ends in an enomous drunken stupor. This time told him he needed to leave until he cuold get help and figure out if he really wanted to be with me and the kids or not . Well, it has been 4months and he still can't make up his mind. So, guess it's over. My children are what keeps me going. am 34 so still have a whole life to live. decided to go to college instead of sulking and am so glad that did.

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am soon to be divorced. have mixed feelings. You see we never really fought/argued. He has seasonal depression and refuses to get help, in the meantime every year when the weather changes he completely isolates himself from all friends and family. Unfortunately this usually ends in an enomous drunken stupor. This time told him he needed to leave until he cuold get help and figure out if he really wanted to be with me and the kids or not . Well, it has been 4months and he still can't make up his mind. So, guess it's over. My children are what keeps me going. am 34 so still have a whole life to live. decided to go to college instead of sulking and am so glad that did.

Hi:
feel realy sorry for all your family. am in more turbulent situation my self and the help is not in my hand. beleive the world democracy is killing this country. You can not save someone's life that he/she from mental disorder. "THEY SAY" He has to decide him/herself. How a person with this kind of problem can decide himself. there is no way out. am trapped myself in more critical situation. All the rabbis walked out. Jewish family services labeled me as a battere took my wife and 5 children. My wife is diagnoised with sever mental problem. She is on SSI but am the victum.
if there is anything can help you and your family let me know.